Nes's Thots...
Sometimes its when you think back...
then you realise...
You could have made it turn out better.
God do come into your life,
helping and guiding you,
in various sorts of ways...
as a person,
by signs,
or even jus in your mind...
And I am thankful that whenever I am feeling the blues...
He has sent me guidance through ppl...
To lift me up again,
to let me know I am not alone...
And he's here for me always. =)
Through these...
I have learnt to see things in a Bigger Picture...
Not to always pick on small issues...
And that everyone of us has our own roles...
And my role now is a Student and that is to Study well...
And for now, it is merely a short two months left.
And my Role as a Student will be Over.
And my role will change veri soon to be Working again...
Which is a role most of us have to deal with for the rest of our lives...
I should take tis opportunity to enjoy as much of my Student life,
instead of mopping for the days to pass faster...
Though Assignments can be a headache,
but this is the only thing dat students face,
other than dat...
After exams & stuff,
It will be time to enjoy!! ;)
And esp for overseas students, it is jus PURE FUN!!
Talking about relationships...
it doesnt mean that when both of you are together,
it's just a life of you and him.
He might jus be a part of your life story...
He still continues to move on with his life...
and so do you...
But you and him now share a special bond in each other's hearts.
For couples who are able to see each other everyday...
Do cherish the time and destiny that has laid its path for you n him...
Cuz its not the same when its otherwise.
Like for me,
I do admit I do long for Moo to be by my side whenever I need him...
To shower enough attention to tis ever "difficult to please" lady...
To coax her till she returns to 'happy mode'...
And then facing the Bill of $2K worth of Long Distance Calls...
=.=
During the past few days...
I have sorted out my thinking...
And Yes,
Being together has to make sacrifices and put in commitment...
Both parties have to communicate and work things out...
Cuz,
Ultimately, both of us have a common goal...
that is:
To be with each other,
cuz of LOVE.
And another thing to add is...
Dun always think of what you want,
Your expectations of him...
What can he do...
What he must do...
Or even why he did not do this or that...
*Have you ever asked what he wants?*
(think hard on this.)
Sometimes when you think positively...
It will all make sense...
Cuz the outcomes of situations turning good or bad...
Almost all depends on how you(we) react...
(mostly us, ladies.)
So why choose to flare up,
when it doesnt cost a thing to smile and view it broadly...
To take a second to ask yourself,
is this worth making both of you upset?
(PS: Tis only applies to small issues, and not those if you caught your guy/gal cheating or whatsoever.)
In a nutshell,
Whatever happens,
it happens for a reason...
To make the relationship stronger or closer,
To make it a happy or sad ending,
Its all up to how you want it to be.
To my frens who are facing r/s problems currently,
Hope by reading this post,
You will be able to see things in a broader perspective...
(I am repeating this so much, gosh!)
And you will feel happier when you do dat,
I Guarantee!
Cuz,
I am feeling happier now...*smiles*
And cherishing our little times we have everyday.
I realli do.
To enjoy simple things of what life brings you,
Is another kind of happiness too.
You WILL then realise...
*.Happiness comes through Doors you Didnt even know you Left Open.*
=)
Labels: My thots.
Agnes aka Nes
